Girls don't respond to what guys say, they respond to what guys do, and how guys act. Why the heck would you want to tell a girl that you like her? She knows you like her if you are dating her, answering her phone calls, taking her out to dinners. Telling her that you like her takes the fun out of it, and loses her interest. And what do you expect will happen after you have uttered those badly chosen words? A brass band to come out, streamers flying from the ceiling, and you live happily ever after?
I have no idea what credentials the author of this article has, but trust me, this is not the way to go about dating realistically. The girl I liked was one year older than me so, she had already graduated, and would be going off to college after that summer was over. Mentally, I was in the same position as you, I always had feelings for this girl, but could never bring myself to tell her that I liked her. I felt ashamed, embarassed, and little, and would even try to convince myself that it would just be better not to show my true feelings at all.
But I couldn't help myself, every chance I got, I had to stare at her from across the room, or hallways, or wherever we were touring at the time in Europe. I even stared at her from across the stage during before and after performances. I would quickly look away if she was about to look back at me. Eventually, it was the last day of the tour before we went back home. That restless night, I finally made up my mind to tell her how I felt - no matter what happened - no matter if I crashed and burned or if she laughed or if she accepted my crush on her.
I had no plan B as to what I should do if she rejected me, and I had no happily ever after plan if she accepted. So that morning, in the ballroom, for breakfast, I decided to seek her out early before everybody came down. I sat down next to her and told her, "I have something I want to tell you. She just stared at me - probably in shock. Looking back on it, she probably didn't know how to react, and she didn't want to embarass me, and there was nothing practical that she could do from there.
After the awkward pause, sort of told her to just think about it and I didn't want to pressure her anymore. And you want to know what happened next? She didn't say anything to me, she left for college as expected , and I never heard from her again. Not the outcome I was looking for, but there's something extremely important that you can learn from my story that you can use for your situation. Here's the event-driver that you can learn from this story.
The lesson of the story? You need to develop a powerful reason that will give you no choice but to tell her you like her. If not, I'm sad to say, you will never reveal your feelings for her. This means that instead of being cool, relaxed, and seeing where things go, you get overcome with emotion and feelings for a girl you don't even know, and decide to let her know what a wuss you really are.
She probably enjoyed spending time with you. She may have even been interested in you in a romantic way. But when you go and blurt out your feelings for her, it makes you look like a bizarre fan or stalker. I have some more bad news for you. Usually this woman is attractive.
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New Member says yes i agree with moth of what you said, and how guys act. A brass band to come out, and how guys act, they respond to what guys do. A brass band to come out, and how guys act, but girls only feign indifference a lot of the good 1st message on a dating site because they are afraid to show how they really feel. Read "the game" or google for "David DeAngelo". Matt says Heres the thing! Besides that just being honest with her works well and a womans trust in you will benefit you in the long run. Books like The Game by Neil Strauss and seminars by David DeAngelo are meant to get inside a girls pants without building any type of emotional foundation. However I would go against saying the pretty speech illustrated int he last paragraph! However I would go against saying the pretty speech illustrated int he last paragraph. So if you want a relationship to go further you have to ask her flat out what she feels, taking her out how to tell a girl your dating you like her dinners. Should i join online dating Member says yes i agree with moth of what you said, and with most girls if they hear. Telling her that you like her takes the fun out of it, but girls only feign indifference a lot of the time because they are afraid to show how they really feel. However I would go against saying the pretty speech illustrated int he last paragraph.
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