One day his sister found him chatting with my daughter. His sister pulled him aside and openly chastised him for talking to my daughter. My daughter asked him about the sisters reaction. He told my daughter they were warned when they first came by authorities not to mix with African Americans because we were all dope pushers and prostitutes. Blackgirlwithstandards Of course he does. Mexico had slavery too. He said Black, not Black Americans. He meant Black in general.
Anti Blackness is rife throughout the Latino community. Blackgirlwithstandards The woman he cursed out is Blacj and Mexican. Blackgirlwithstandards I have dated Latino men and have had bad experiences with Mexicans and Dominicans. Too much white washed, colorist thinking for me. Puerto Ricans are cool…. I have family members married to men from Costa Rica and Honduras and their families were ok with their sons marrying BW. LatinGuy It is disheartening to hear this.
There are always going to be racist people in evey race. But I do understand the hurt that comes with something unexpected like that. Both pairs were surprised at first, but have been warm to each of us. Another topic that always seems to come up is our future children. They make it sound like I am dating him just for a mixed kid. I never understood this, because I cannot even think about procreating with someone I did not love. As a mother, I know that whatever my kids look like, I will think they are the cutest kids on the planet.
So, I am in the relationship for him, not for their looks. That being said, there are things that I do slightly worry about the future. How would I pull it off? Will I be able to make things like tamales perfectly or semi-good? What other traditions and holidays would I learn by messing up? These are some of all the different things I wonder, but, luckily, I have a man kind enough and patient enough to help and teach me along the way.
As a romantic, I feel that everything will work out. We both come from different cultures, but I believe it makes our relationship stronger and balanced. I have learned so much! He has taught me how to salsa and much of the Mexican culture as I have taught him mine. And although we have different cultures, we share some of the same core values: Two people that are so different can still be so similar. Although we cannot be completely similar, respect and being aware of sensitive topics that we might not agree on help smooth any disagreements that may happen.
But is not this the same with all relationships? Going into an interracial relationship, I wish I would have known how easy it was. I had expected so many differences between us to show up later in the relationships but that has not happened. Interracial relationships circle around learning; you get the opportunity to dig deeper and deeper into the traditions of someone else.
All of the stares from strangers are worth being with the one you love.
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